Please don't pick my friends

I like a lot of the women in the church. I truly do. But I don't like socializing with them. I actually don't like socializing. And I don't like being told they'd make great friends....better than the ones I have now. It makes me cranky. I wish he wouldn't try to push me into friendships with people because they'd be good for me or have a positive impact on me or whatever the reason is. I think the underlying reason will always come back to my soul. Like I said, I generally like some of the women. I just don't want to see people all the time.